'He actively discouraged overwork': People share tips from competent bosses who actually made sure their employees prioritized life over work

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    World - Posted by u/salinungatha 3 days ago PSA: 20 years from now, the only people who will remember that you worked late are your kids One of my best ever managers used to say this often. He actively discouraged overwork
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    Font - fenix1230 3 days ago edited 3 days ago . My old boss told me this: "I've missed so many birthdays, plays, and events for work, and I can't even tell you why. I don't remember what I was working on, I can't tell you why it was important. But I can tell you how my not being there made my kids feel. Don't be like me."
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    Font - beermemygoodman 3 days ago This is something as a Boomer I'd like to take the time to address. Our generation was ingrained that you do not miss work ever. Not if you're sick, not if your kids are sick, not if your wife just had a baby, and certainly not to just live life and appreciate a gorgeous day. The term "mental health day" was not a term people used, let alone a valid reason to miss work. My parents are Silent Generation and this is how many of us were raised.
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    Font - So many people from my generation passed along this kind of toxic work perspective and it wasn't until the advent of the internet that the actual statistics of corporate greed, wage theft, metrics used to assign a dollar number to employee value in event of death and a resulting lawsuit etc. etc. became much more common knowledge.
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    Font - Millennials have an understanding of this incredible line of demarcation of a life pre internet and the life we have now. Our lives have been completely changed with this power of information. One of the major problems we have to deal with, however, is that the brainwashed can't seem to understand they spread the very propaganda that keeps them electing any BS artist who promises them a tax break over the big picture. Civil rights for all which, long term, promotes a healthier, more susta
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    Font - Peyvian 3 days ago Working too much was a cultural thing for your generation. For us, its necessity. Even if the brainwashed stop spreading the propaganda, landlords won't lower rent. We can't stop, they won't let us stop. Even with the knowledge we have about mental health and overworking, we must disregard and keep on keeping on because it dosent matter. 874 DrZadek 3 days ago Reply Share . 284 Yup, we know we shouldn't work so much. We'd all take time off if we could afford it. Reply S
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    Font - sillyboy544 3 days ago I had a boss one time who was very wealthy because he owned our successful business. A coworker whose wife worked at a law firm who handled the property sale in the old buildings and lot when he moved the company told him that he cleared $20 million from just that transaction. He never went on vacation, drove an older car even though he could easily afford a half dozen Lamborghinis. He lived in a tiny house. He died with all that money in the bank. What a useless li
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    Font - swany Mcswan 3 days ago edited 3 days ago . I got 6 weeks paid parental leave after my wife had our baby, I went back to work for 2 weeks, the used 2 more weeks of vacation. My boss was like, "dude call in sick and sh t. Help out your wife. Take time off. We can handle things for a few months while you're not here all the time". One of the other coworkers (boo was proud that his kids were all born on a weekend so he didn't miss a single day of work. He was also proud to have never changed
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    Font - 00 Vargoroth 3 days ago . My old boss once told me: "the graveyard is full of 'irreplaceable' and important people." I think a lot about that.
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    Font - Sleep_adict 3 days ago The graveyard is full of people who counted their coins instead of counting their blessings
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    Human body - sofawood 3 days ago The boss will forget you worked late the second you walk in 3 minutes past 09:00
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    Font - PoderDosBois · 3 days ago Being 2 minutes late means you might have had some kind of non-work priority that prevented you from showing up 15 minutes early and loitering by the timeclock like a good little slave with nothing better to do. My boss actually said just yesterday that when she gets more people on closing shift she's going to start writing people up for being literally 2 minutes late because she can afford to suspend us when she gets more closers. I'm not sure she realizes that
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    Font - wishfulwatermelon 3 days ago I will always tell my employees to get offline if I see them on after hours. If I know they worked late (their choice) I tell them to start late or leave early on whatever day without submitting pto. They worked their full hours and got their work done. I don't care when they do it as long as they meet their commitments.
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    Human body - chunkycow 3 days ago Family over work. What's the point of all the money if you have no time for loved ones?
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    Font - SandF 3 days ago Your tombstone will not say "BELOVED EMPLOYEE"
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    Font - GreenPL8 3 days ago "Here lies Jason Dickswith, Beloved Employee and Creator of Shareholder Value. For decades he slaved for his boss's boss, who became slightly more rich at his expense, and for that we say: Attaboy. Though he was not long for this world a raise was just on the horizon, we promise, maybe next quarter. Stop asking me. May he continue to labor in heaven so that Supply Side Jesus can ascend to CEO of the Universe. Amen."
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    Font - tatpig 3 days ago i used to work with a guy who would camp out at the shop monday thru friday. went home for weekends. got divorced, his kids grew up, but he doesn't even know them.
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    Human body - Dyert 3 days ago and his boss and coworkers won't even give him a second thought once they're all old and/or retired
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    Font - badnit12 3 days ago I did more than 30 years working all over the world and stupid long hours. Sometimes not home for 2 months. It got me divorced twice and kids not happy when I wasn't there for school plays, sports days or taking them out. I make a far better Grandad than I ever was a Father. Although it has worked out well, I can't recommend what I did.
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    Font - SilverCirclet 3 days ago • My dad was always working. And he died in his office. My father's life was defined by work, and I refuse to live my one life the same way.
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    Human body - too-legit-to-quit . 3 days ago Workaholism to be treated. is a mental illness that needs
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    Font - Rockonfreakybro. 3 days ago My 5 year relationship with the love of my life came to an end recently in large part to me working 70-80 hours a week. This job means nothing, less than nothing now. I've sacrificed everything for nothing. I'll never need to learn this lesson again.
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    Font - Putrid_Ad_2256. 3 days ago Add me to the list of suckers that were told how "important" it was for me to show up on Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years Eve, birthdays, weddings, and even family sicknesses only to be laid off as soon as the company's profits weren't as high as they wanted them to be. You can make money any time, but you can never make time with all the money.

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